Everyone wants a perfect love life.
But who can get it?
No One to be exact.
Yeah.I admit.
I am one of those silly girls dreaming of a wonderful love life especially after watching some romance movies or dramas.
That is why our mind are needed to be detoxified!
Everyday is a fairytale but only when we are dreaming!
Nowadays, people are demanding for fireworks, sparkles or some sort of complicated chemistry in their relationship.
Yes.I am one of them.
Who wants a dull relationship?
But as your anniversaries move from the 3rd to the 4th year or 4th to the 5th year and the list goes on, you'll realised that it is quite impossible to maintain the sparks in reality.
In order to go on, face it and deal with it or else you'll come out with a list of your BF/GF names.
Yeah.I know I change bf for a couple of times. =_=
i know.mine should be love storIES.
Everything has changed.
I wonder how our parents, grandparents, ancestors maintain with only one partner in their whole life.clean record.
It is hard to find a couple who can marry with their first love.
Extinct already lah hor.
Sometimes I do think being in a relationship is troublesome.
Firstly, you need to commit in it IF you are longing for an everlasting relationship.
Seriously, commitment is a very serious issue and involvement in a relationship.
I know I failed in this in my previous relationship.I'm sorry.
Commitment is not just about ABC or 123..
It is about you taking your responsibility as a BF/GF of your partner and to love your partner unconditionally.
...and of course it is not a responsibility to love someone.don't get me wrong!
Maybe some of you might define commitment in your own perceptions and it depends on how u define or want it to be.
...and if you think it negatively, commitment is a burden.
Yes.I do think it is sometimes.
As for freedom, phewwww~~
This is darn important!
How can one live without freedom?
That is why I put "chiewbee wants to be a freEeee beEeee" in my msn.
But what does freedom means in terms of relationship?
Freedom of being able to hang out with anyone you like?
To do whatever you want, to flirt with anyone, to be free of being controlled, to have your own precious time,..basically....to do anything you want without being tied up!
Sometimes, you don't even actually realise you are stealing the freedom of your loved ones because you are blinded by the word LOVE.
I know not all GFs/BFs would take away their partner's freedom.
..and nowadays I bet most of the couples are giving freedom (limited) to each other.
This is a healthier relationship.at least for me.
But somehow, I do think that freedom will be taken away.
I know I am selfish.
However, when you found someone who loves you a lot and you love him/her a lot too, things might change.
Be it the way you act or think.
..and of course, if you seriously think that he/she is your Mr/Mrs.Right, do not let go this potential relationship as you might not find someone like him/her anymore.
It all depends on how far or deep your are able to commit or give in your relationship.
There is no such thing as who gives more or who gives less.
It can't be measured.
Love should be of a balance commitment and sacrifice.
I know I am "long-winded"..
I have a sudden rush to write this.
This issue bothers me a lot.
A lot of confusions and dilemmas.
It hits me even more when I see many people are actually facing this problem.
Hopefully they can settle their problem!
All the best wishes to all the couples out there!!!!
♥ XOXO ♥
i can see stars* around me now...
at kellie castle :)
wEeeeee~~
...and Happy 5th Birthday to my lovely second niece!!! =)
